Cats mainly communicate through body language. Do you know what your cat is attempting to tell you with her tail, ears, or body position? You can learn a lot about your cat's state of mind if you know what to seek out. Cats show anger with arched backs , flattened ears, dilated pupils and fluffed-up tails. A swishing tail can be a sign of impending attack. A cat who is attempting to stare you down is issuing a challenge. Cats don't like for you to stare at them.

A relaxed cat has eyes that are half open. Cats express affection by blinking their eyes gradually. Kneading motions with the paws shows happiness. When the cat rubs her head against you, she's either greeting you or showing affection. A cat who licks you is expressing love as licking is grooming behavior. Cats rub up against you to mark you with their scent to claim you as their human. Cats also roll around on their backs when they see their owner as a sign of happiness. Some cats may give tiny bites to express affection. A submissive cat will roll over on her back. Her ears will be laid down and to the side. Her tail may be tucked between her legs. This stance might be seen when a beloved owner is approaching the cat.

A cat that is ready to play has erect ears, large pupils and a tail held upright. If your cat is crouching and not moving, she's getting ready to pounce on something, maybe even you. A twitching tail is a sign to stop what you're doing. As the cat gets angrier, the tail will twitch harder and faster. A cat may also bite or scratch as a warning to stop petting them. If the cat is carrying her tail downward, she isn't happy or isn't feeling well. Cats who shake their paws are expressing disgust or displeasure. You may see this when the cat accidentally steps in water.

By learning how your cat expresses herself, you'll have a more rewarding relationship with your cat and learn to enjoy her expressions of affection. Also, you'll know when to leave her alone such as when she's up set or unhappy.